In the Parable of the Wedding Feast, Jesus gives a message about humility. He also reveals a bit about the social structure of his day. In this parable he warns the guests not to sit in the seats of honor in case someone more distinguished should arrive. The obvious result would be that someone would be shamed by having to move to a lower place. Rather, Jesus suggests, it is better to sit in a lesser location, than to be invited to a better seat. In that scenario, rather than being shamed, the one having humility would be honored.
This week’s lesson focuses on social structure and the various stratums and power rankings within society. Think about the words of Jesus. Note how he doesn’t criticize the social stratums, he is critical of a lack of humility of the people sitting outside the standards of their status.
I recently read of a flight from Newark, NJ to Tel Aviv, Israel being turned back about 90 minutes into the flight because two passengers sneaked into business class. This is not unlike purchasing an inexpensive ticket for a professional sporting event, but automatically sitting in better (i.e., more expensive) seats, hoping someone with tickets to those seats doesn’t show up. Have you ever done that? If so, did you have any anxiety about being embarrassed to be sent back to the cheaper seats?
As you meditate on this week’s passage and discussion:
- Think about your own society or job. Is status clearly defined or is everyone on the same level?
- Give a detailed example of how you have recognized and managed your status in your job or community or family.
- Include any details of being lowered or elevated in your status.

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